Staff Writer
For many people, making a relationship work after divorce is unthinkable, simply because most break-ups are caused by irreconcilable differences.
Former spouses dread to cross paths with their exes, for the rest of their lives. Many block each other out totally – phone numbers deleted, and unfriend each other on social media.
It’s like the other one never existed!
But not Olinda Chapel and Stunner.
As the rapper turned 43 today, Olinda sent him warm birthday wishes in a scenario that many social media users likened to the movie ‘Acrimony’ by renowned filmmaker Tyler Perry.
The two went separate ways after an acrimonious relationship which played out on social media.
Many still remember how Olinda threw tantrums live on Facebook after she discovered Stunner had been cheating on her with young Dyonne Tafirenyika.
“Happy birthday Dziva, Dai ndatenga present but handiti wakandiramba ukati ‘Ndoenda’ Saka itiranai ikoko’,” she wrote and punctuated it with laugh out loud emojis. “Happy birthday ex wangu.”
In the song Ndoenda (2017), Stunner sings about a man who is fed up of a toxic relationship and want to leave.
And just like in Acrimony, when Melinda met Robert, she was skeptical of his charming nature, but couldn’t deny how attracted she was to him. Once they fell in love, Melinda moulded herself into everything he wanted her to be.
She sacrificed for him, worked to support his grandiose dreams, and put up with him for better or for worse. Then, one day she realised that, after all she had done, another woman was reaping the lavish rewards. That’s when Melinda lost it, and now she cannot let it go.
This perhaps best describes Olinda’s actions following her separation from Stunner and then she moved on with another musician Tytan with whom she has a daughter.
Social media were quick to remind Olinda of her past.
One follower commented: “Bishu rine chimarriage chenhema.”
Another follower reacted: ‘’Olinda achine ma feelings na Stunner. Tytan haah kudheererwa uku.”
A third follower said: “This is the proof of WHO IS THE MAN in the current marriage . . . Varume shandai muite mari dzenyu . . . Handsome usina cash mahwani . . . Hazvitoshamise kuona Tytan kakatonyorawo kuti Happy Birthday blaz ipapa.”
A fourth follower said: “That’s why Shadaya ends up chastising some men for being simps because how can you honestly call yourself a man when your wife is constantly taking every opportunity to post about her ex on social media. The worst part is hakasi kekutanga achizviita. It’s shocking.
A fifth follower wrote: “Kana uchiziva hako kuti ndiwe pillar murelationship unoita yaunoda shuwa hazviitwi nana Shakespeare izvi.”
“Deep inside your hearts muchiri kudanana anyway happy birthday Dziva,”
Another one said: “When the wife is basically the head of house I don’t see the humour in this but only disrespect.”
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